Weakness During the Holidays

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Written By Trillia Newbell

“Merry Christmas” to some is like nails running down a chalk board. The phrase makes your skin crawl and you squirm at the sound. You want to have a merry Christmas, but it’s hard. You want to be strong, but you are weak. I’m thinking of you this holiday season. I am you this holiday season. It is truly good to be jars of clay. I am praying for a genuine joy that transcends understanding for each of us. This joy can only be found in Christ.

 

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