Hospitality with Little
My husband and I recently packed up and moved. God has been teaching me so much during this transition but one unexpected lesson has been about hospitality. I wrote about it on The Gospel Coalition. Here is an excerpt:
I love to host people in my home—the more the merrier! The idea of one day owning a bed-and-breakfast and preparing a meal for strangers who have traveled far and wide, preparing all the Southern fixin’s you can imagine (eggs, bacon, grits, biscuits, gravy), makes this Tennessee girl jump for joy. Hospitality is a joy for me—not a burden. But a recent move has left me with far less space to host. It’s easy to excuse our inhospitable attitudes due to inadequate space or messy homes. Yet during this move I’ve been reminded that hospitality is a matter of the heart, not square footage or neatness.
You can read the rest here: http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2013/12/16/you-can-be-hospitable-even-with-little/
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