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5 Reasons I Don’t Share about My Kids’ Faith
I love social media. I post on the big three platforms often and when I have down time, I’ll comment and explore. It’s been a wonderful way to reconnect with old friends, keep my extended family informed about what we are doing, and an unexpected avenue for ministry. I share articles that I have written, notes of encouragement, and thoughts on current events, all typically from my Christian perspective and worldview. I also share often about my kids—our everyday silliness, the fun activities I have planned, and general life. But one area I don’t share much about is my kids’ faith…
My Superstitious Faith
“It’ll be just my luck for something terrible to happen.”
I was speaking recently with my husband about something and I made this flippant comment. I can’t remember exactly what I was referring to, but I will never forget my husband’s response. He saw through my flippant comment and realized it wasn’t flippant at all; it was a reflection of my heart. He responded, “Trillia, that’s superstitious and sounds like you aren’t trusting God.” It stopped me in my tracks and I suddenly realized that I’ve been relating to life and God with superstition instead of faith throughout the past month…
Blind, Yet Seeing God’s Glory
I became a Christian at 22. At the time I was single and seemed to embody Paul’s description of being unmarried and undistracted (1 Cor. 7:32–34). All I wanted to do, besides hang out with friends, was to read and study God’s Word. I memorized and meditated and enjoyed meeting with him, often for hours at a time…
Book Study: Chapter 11, Growing in the Fear of the Lord
We’ve come to the end of what has been an incredible journey through the Bible considering how to fight our fears with faith. But the battle doesn’t end with the end of this book study. It takes the power of God and his grace made available to us through His Spirit to enable us to continue the race. So, how do we fight for faith and, essentially, how do you grow in the fear of the Lord?..
Book Study: Chapter 10, When Our Fears Come True
Read: Genesis 3
The story of the fall is all too familiar, thus this will likely be our shortest study to date. We know what happened. We know that Eve was tempted by the serpent, Adam cowardly stood by his wife and then ate the fruit from his wife, and sin entered the world. They both became completely aware of their nakedness and what was once completely pure now, instead, brought shame. They were ashamed of their nakedness and covered themselves with fig leaves. There’s much more that could be said but for now and the purposes of today’s study, this brief summary should do. But it’s the next few verses that I’d like for us to spend some time on…
Book Study: Chapter 9, The Fear of the Lord
Read Exodus 1-2:10
Quick Background Information
Our study this week looks at the story of the Hebrew midwives in the beginning of the book of Exodus. Although we won’t be able to dive into all of the historical aspects of the book, it is helpful to know the basic context of these first chapters…
Book Study: Chapter 8, Why We Can Trust God
Chapter eight in Fear and Faith is a reflection and study on the various characteristics of God. God is sovereign, wise, loving, and good. Knowing these specific attributes are true of God and that He encompasses all of them completely and perfectly can bring great peace to my heart. However, it’s easy for me to have peace in my heart when my circumstances are rather uneventful. But what happens when life’s trials begin to encroach upon my happily ever after? When I remember the Lord my faith doesn’t wane, but the moment I take my eyes off my firm foundation I begin to crumble…
Book Study: Chapter 7, Fear of Sexual Intimacy
I can’t remember a day that has gone by over the past year or two when I’ve opened my email, jumped on social media, or turned on the television and not seen at least one reference to sexual sin, sexuality, sexual identity, the sexual revolution…you name it, I’ve seen it and I think your experience probably matches my own. It’s the topic of the day, the hour. And it’s an important topic that we must address because it is affecting all aspects of our lives, society and culture. It’s something that cannot be ignored. And thankfully it’s a topic that I am seeing more women tackle as well. (I recently had a chance to answer a question about women and sexual issues at The Gospel Coalition.) Yet, it’s also such a tender, sensitive topic. Sex is deeply personal and if you’ve struggled with fear in this area in any way, you know that fear can be powerful. Today, I’d like to draw our attention to the One who already knows our struggles, invites us to come, and has grace available to us…
Book Study: Chapter 6, Fear of Physical Appearance
We’ve come to Chapter 6, which also means we are halfway through our Fear and Faith Book Study. I’ve loved reading through your comments and also spending time in the stories of the various biblical characters we’ve looked at. Time and time again we’ve seen the faithfulness of God towards unfaithful people. He is amazing!..
Book Study: Chapter 5, Fear of Not Measuring Up
Have you ever felt as if your world was crumbling and all things were stacked against you? That no matter what you do or even could think to do, there was no way to turn things to your favor. You can’t make yourself be smart enough, attain a certain status, receive the desired attention or change your appearance to look a certain way—even when you know that much of these desires are driven by worldliness. In Genesis 29, we’re introduced to the story of Leah and I imagine she felt as if her world was crumbling and all things were stacked against her…
What trumps all our fears?
The headlines are out and they are scary. But our is greater than all our fears and much greater than the headlines that keep us wondering what terrible thing might happen next…
Book Study: Chapter 3, Fear of Other Women
At first glance, you might read the “Fear of Other Women” and think I’m talking about actually being scared of other women. But that’s not what I mean. We can, however, be tempted to compare ourselves to other women, envy their lives, and judge them by distorted standards. This can lead to fearing other women instead of enjoying them as a gift God has given to us…
Book Study: Chapter 2, Fear of the Future
Jesus was on his way to Jerusalem when a rich young man ran to him and knelt. The young man was eager. He knew Jesus was important. He also knew the Law. What he didn’t know, we come to find, is the depths of his own heart…
he Original Jesus: An Interview with Author Dan Darling
Who is your Jesus? That may seem like an odd question, but so often we make Jesus into images that suit us rather than the Jesus we find in the Bible. Dan Darling has set out to help us think through our versions of Jesus and provides a helpful corrective in his new book, The Original Jesus: Trading the Myths We Create for the Savior Who Is…
Fear and Faith Study Introduction
We are gearing up to begin the Fear and Faith book study next Tuesday, September 8. Today, I’d like to make sure you are fully prepared to begin. This study can be done alone or with a group. You can find out all the preliminary information here…
Abortion, Weeping, and Hope
I grew up believing strongly that every person should have equal rights–every person living and walking was made with the potential to do great things and contribute to society. If you were to label me, perhaps you’d say I was feminist, pro-choice and politically liberal. Like much of America, I believed that a woman had a right to determine what was best for her body. I believed wholeheartedly that I was also pro-women. No one, I thought, should be allowed to control the outcome of an unwanted pregnancy except for the mother. The male partner didn’t have rights to voice an opinion either. I actually don’t believe I thought the baby was a baby. In other words, I adopted the idea that he or she was a fetus of cells that weren’t fully developed and therefore disposable. There wasn’t anything in my mind that would have convinced me otherwise…
A New Project and a Request
I never thought I’d be an author. Really, it wasn’t what I thought the Lord would have for me. For many of my friends, writing is the way they breathe—it’s almost therapeutic. I have friends who if they don’t write, can hardly think. Writing is important for them to function. Writing has never been that for me. I do love writing, but I have a desire to counsel. I’m slowly pursuing my M.A. in biblical counseling because I desire to encourage others in the faith with the truth of God’s word. That’swhy I write—to encourage others in the faith with the truth of God’s word. And it is such an honor and great joy to be able to serve in this way during this season…
The Prodigal, the Legalist, and Grace for All
A few years ago, a friend approached me about an observation she had. I was confused by her correction as it didn’t seem that I had actually sinned. Perhaps I was so unaware of my sinful behavior that it was what some consider a blind spot—so deeply rooted in me that I couldn’t see it. But after sharing her observation with my husband and a few close friends, my conscience was clear. I don’t think I had sinned in that moment. Later my friend would confess struggling with legalism and judging others. It wasn’t that she saw something in me that needed adjustment so that I might walk in a manner worthy of the gospel. She saw something in me that needed adjustment so that I might walk in a manner worthy of her…
Join me for the fall Fear and Faith Study!
One of the things that I’ve repeatedly observed is the danger of isolation in the Christian life. The creeping sense that you’re alone in your struggle, temptation and sin. This is so dangerous because the truth is the exact opposite, you aren’t alone in your struggle, temptation, or sin. We won’t know this if we stay in isolation, as there’s love, strength and grace to be found in a community of believers striving and growing together…
When Mother’s Day Is Hard
Several of my friends have recently suffered miscarriages. They endure the anguish of feeling their bodies begin to change to make room for a growing baby only to lose the child. I, too, have experienced it—four times. At first we thought perhaps I had a problem with fertility. It took us a year to get pregnant and then seven weeks to lose the baby. I got pregnant quickly again and miscarried at ten weeks. Eventually I had a sweet baby boy. After him I miscarried two more times and then had my girl…
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